Barnebidrag (Child Support)

Definition

Barnebidrag (child support / child maintenance) is a financial contribution paid for a child’s living costs when parents do not live together. In Norway, child support is often handled privately between parents, but NAV can calculate the amount and issue decisions in certain circumstances.

How child support is typically calculated

Norwegian child support frameworks usually consider factors such as:

• The cost of supporting the child (standardised cost models)
• Both parents’ incomes and ability to pay
• The child’s income (if relevant)
• Visitation/contact arrangements (including shared residence)

NAV provides a child support calculator for parents who want a private agreement. The result is guidance only and is not the same as a formal NAV decision.

Do Better Norge perspective

Money becomes a control lever in high-conflict separations. Common problems reported by families include:

• Weaponisation of child support (threats tied to contact, “pay or you won’t see your child”).
• Travel and distance costs ignored when contact requires long journeys.
• Informal agreements with no enforcement until conflict escalates.
• Opacity: parents struggle to understand how the number was produced and what inputs were used.

From a family-life perspective, financial rules should not create incentives to reduce meaningful contact.

Practical steps

• Use the calculator as a starting point, but document the assumptions (income, contact schedule, expenses).
• Put agreements in writing and include review dates (e.g., yearly or when circumstances change).
• Document contact-related costs (travel, accommodation, missed work) when distance is a factor.
• Get guidance early if conflict is rising—mediation and legal advice can prevent escalation.

References and official resources

• NAV: Child support (English overview)
• NAV: Barnebidragskalkulator (calculator and guidance)
• Norge.no: Child maintenance calculator (service description)
• Info Norden: Child support in Norway (summary of factors)

Do Better Norge note: This entry is not a substitute for legal or financial advice. If child support is being used to restrict contact, document it and seek professional guidance.